You may have discovered that your ex girlfriend’s new relationship is an abusive one. You probably still want her back, but now more than ever you feel you have to rescue her. How can you get your ex girlfriend back from an abusive relationship that she is currently in? You probably feel bad the ex girlfriend that you still are in love with is not only with the wrong person but apparently in an abusive relationship. You know she doesn’t deserve that so you feel you have to do something to get her out of it, even if she doesn’t come back to you.
In your own heart you need to determine if it is more important to save her from the bad situation she is in or to get your ex girlfriend back. Make sure your motivation is not selfish as she really does need someone to rescue her. To her what will make the biggest impression is if she sees you have her interest in mind more so than your own. You shouldnt help her if you are only furthering your own interest. Hopefully you will see the good that needs to be done and that will be your driving force. However you try to help her you may also find out that she doesnt want to be helped. That is just something you may have to accept. Not every woman sees an abusive relationship as being something that is of great concerns to her. Some are even attracted to it in a strange way.